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Salt, Savor: Lost

It’s probably not a good sign when all of my hobbies have become redundant and boring. But then again, there’s only so much a person can take of Politics, Firearms, and Tech. It’s always the same thing, packaged slightly differently. I need a new hobby..

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Posted by on November 26, 2013 in Life

 

Mediation as Part of Employee Engagement

I came across this article on LinkedIn.com and really enjoyed it. In From Argument to Engagement, David Liddle discusses how traditional HR grievance resolution methods do little to actually help resolve conflict in the work place:

Traditional grievance or bullying and harassment procedures do little to resolve disputes. Drawing on a quasi-legal structure they are inherently formal and profoundly adversarial. When I speak with employees, managers and HR professionals, they tell me that they do everything that they can to avoid going into a grievance procedure. When they do however encounter the grievance process, the experience has been described to me as harrowing; upsetting; destructive; stressful; frightening; and ultimately counterproductive. Let’s not forget that this is the procedure of choice for resolving disputes in the majority of… organisations.

The dichotomy is plain to see. I call it ‘The HR Paradox’. HR professionals, on the one hand, are a key proponent and enabler of employee engagement. Yet on the other hand, HR are the custodians of a dispute resolution system which tears workplace relationships asunder. The HR Paradox has the potential to undermine the legitimacy of HR and in doing so, it creates the potential for cynicism and distrust of employee engagement initiatives. Nevertheless, employee engagement, according to the Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development (CIPD), is a core function of the HR profession.

He then goes on to discuss mediation, what it is, and how it can help your organization.

Mediation can be defined as a:

  • Framework – a process whereby a neutral third party intervenes in a dispute to help the parties to secure a satisfactory and constructive resolution.
  • Competence – a set of skills that HR, managers and business leaders use to secure constructive outcomes at times of conflict, change and crisis.
  • Mind-set – a way of thinking and an organisational culture which embraces dialogue and collaboration rather than blame and retribution.

The mediator is an impartial third party. They help the disputing parties to have an open and honest dialogue so that they can identify and secure a mutually acceptable outcome. A win/win outcome. Mediation is different because it about collaborating rather than blaming.

Mediation is an opportunity for parties-in-conflict to have a new conversation. Mediation provides parties both the privilege and the burden of creating their future.

The benefits of using mediation to build an engaged workforce:

  • It gives parties in a dispute a voice and a chance to be heard.
  • It encourages openness and honesty.
  • It generates empathetic, adult to adult connections.
  • Parties focus on their interests and needs rather than the strength of their relative positions.
  • The parties craft their own solutions – avoiding the need for solutions to be imposed.
  • It encourages creative and innovative thinking.
  • Issues are resolved to the mutual satisfaction of the parties.
  • It develops resilience – for individuals and for teams.
  • It underpins economic growth and drives competitive advantage.

I would LOVE to find a way to integrate mediation into my workplace, even in my own little corner of the organization. Being a grunt, I don’t really have a way to do this presently.

 
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Posted by on March 7, 2013 in Conflict Studies, Life, People

 

Pant Wetting

Tam discusses the pant wetting going on regarding the TSA’s decision to allow small pocket knives onto airplanes. In usual Tam fashion, she ends her post with a zinger. After hearing a flight attendant claim that she’s a first responder and the last line of defense, Tam responds:

“No, honey, you’re a waitress in a bad restaurant at 28,000 feet!”

ZING!

 
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Posted by on March 7, 2013 in Eyes+Sharp Stick, Life, People

 

Monday Morning Motivation

Anything is Possible – Author Unknown

If there was ever a time to dare,

to make a difference,

to embark on something worth doing,

IT IS NOW.

Not for any grand cause, necessarily…

but for something that tugs at your heart,

something that’s your inspiration,

something that’s your dream.

You owe it to yourself

to make your days here count.

HAVE FUN.

DIG DEEP.

STRETCH.

DREAM BIG.

 

Know, though, that things worth doing seldom come easy.

There will be good days.

And there will be bad days.

There will be times when you want to turn around,

pack it up,

and call it quits.

Those times tell you

that you are pushing yourself,

that you are not afraid to learn by trying.

 

PERSIST.

Because with an idea,

determination,

and the right tools,

you can do great things.

Let your instincts,

your intellect,

and your heart,

guide you.

 

TRUST.

believe in the incredible power of the human mind.

Of doing something that makes a difference.

Of working hard.

Of laughing and hoping.

Of lazy afternoons.

Of lasting friends.

Of all the things that will cross your path this year.

 

The start of something new brings the hope of something great, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

 

 
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Posted by on March 4, 2013 in Language, Life, People

 

Happy Wednesday

 
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Posted by on February 27, 2013 in Education, Life, People

 

The Love of God

Gives us strength to endure adversity.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdN8rfwW3SI#! 

 
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Posted by on February 21, 2013 in Life, People, Religion

 

Two Great Commandments

Matthew 22: 36-39

Master, which is the great commandment in the law?

Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.

This is the first and great commandment.

And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.

 
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Posted by on February 18, 2013 in Life, People, Religion

 
 
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